people

People who make each other extraordinary.

I like that.
There was just this bit in Grey's Anatomy (which might as well be my bible you know).
And there was this bit, about, "I would rather be with you, than be alone, because together we can be extraordinary".
And I like that.
I like the idea (and the reality) of having people, or seeing people, who just lift each other, who click, and something amazing happens.
They bounce off each other, there is something, a 3rd energy, something completely new.
A chemistry.
They just
make
each other
extraordinary.

And I love witnessing that.
So much.

IT is extraordinary.
Extraordinary.

And this happens all over the place.
With friends, colleagues, musicians in rehearsals, actors, dancers.
Or simple strangers.
It happens to strangers.

And it's amazing.

So when you find it, see it, or feel it, appreciate it.
Take it in.
And if you can, don't let it go.

Yours truly.
M.

Oh and, heal your psyche/psychology and find You.

love

Last night I was sat in a sauna, around 2am.
I was there on my own, which hasn't happened in a very long time.
I used to do that all the time in our old house but ever since it's always either with friends, or at the gym. All good options.
But it used to have a very different effect and meaning for me.
A semi-meditative almost-ritual, just some purifying time alone.
And a time for good thoughts, lots of new, good thoughts.

And so I sat there, late last night.
Spanish and CH were sat outside, and I was in the sauna thinking my thoughts.

And out of nowhere sprang these ideas about love.
And what makes "it work".
I've seen so many people, find love, fall in love, experience the feelings.
And then something happens.
And so I ask, what happens?

And the more I looked at this the more I realised that love is everywhere.
We find it everywhere.
As a race, you know.
And there are so many people we could connect with, given the circumstances.
So love happens, everywhere.
But that's not It.
"It" is a decision.

When a person decides, "yes, I choose you", and coincidentally the other person decides just the same, "I choose you too", then "It" happens.

I've seen so many of my friends choose.
But one of them.
As in, they choose, but the other one simply doesn't.
And that's how far it goes.
This is nothing about, value, worth, or "if I would've had better hair", or "laughed at his jokes more".
Et
cetera

It's not a game of what-if-i-could-persuade-someone-to-appreciate-me-please-please.
It's choice+choice.
(Or very often, choice+not choice.)
Point is.
Don't fret, darlings.
Just make sure you make your own choices, make them right and make them in time.

Yours truly.
M.

In other news - I miss the Christmas tour. Good sign!